When I joined my first site meeting online 4 years ago, that I expected, it would be something like the television ads. They send me matches of nice guys who were looking for the same thing as me. Boy was I wrong.
I met some great guys online and made some wonderful friends. But for these guys, I had my way through emails from guys like "toysoflove69", "themilkman" and "hardride" of weeds. More than half of the e-mails I receive my "games" are looking for one or two flings night. Cross these guys and against weeds through the rest and, perhaps, the end, that I will have a man that I would be prepared to meet in person.
It amazes me the number of guys who use bad pick up lines or try to skip right from the website of the bedroom. Such an e-mail of introduction, I received said, "Take me for a road test, ride me like you stole me." What do you have to lose? »
Sometimes, I was tempted to respond to these men and ask if it really works? They become really dates? Or, more likely just get worn by women with low self-esteem itself.
Even if a man makes it past the first E-mail it does not mean that it will make much further.
I responded once to a man that for two hours he lived too far. I thank for his e-mail but politely refused to pursue something more with him. He replied "" stupid b ^ % # two hours is not that much I know what is your problem "." I have to wonder if he thought that would change my mind or he just do handle rejection well. In any event, clearly not a man that would have made me happy.
I think my favorite "game" was the man who, in his introduction to email, admitted being 40, living in his mothers basement and was a teller at the fast food chain. In the image of his profile he was wearing a Bevis and Butthead t-shirt. He also admitted (right there in his profile) that he was looking for a friend because her mother was kicked in the basement. As a college educated women, that I wondered how anyone who has ever see as my "game"?
Honesty is very important in any relationship. But sometimes when you try to know someone online there is such a thing too much information. I have to know everything about your ex before I know what to your subject. I also want to hear about your terrible work, finance troubled, why you do not see your children because or your criminal record. Many of these men need a therapist not a girlfriend.
Once again too much honesty early is sometimes a good thing. Three or four emails in a "game", I think I am ready to whether you are a cross dresser, are really married, have an order of protection against you or that you are looking for a dominatrix. It's all for me instant deal breakers.
In future articles I plan to share my dating experiences many, some good, some bad and some almost incredible. Also thanks to the many good friends I have dating online I will also share the mans perspective.
When I left my husband a good friend told me: "there is no way you will be only long. I believe him. That four years is long in the overall situation, but I never expected dating back four years would result in the that I plan to share stories. At this stage in the dating game, I keep my profiles more for entertainment than the opportunity to meet Mr. right. I think again it is until I meet him I will enjoy the humour of dating online.
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