Navigate the world of online dating, it is not an easy task. You are 1, thousands of men and the competition is fierce.
I put together this guide to get you started. If you use what I tell you here, you'll be miles ahead of 99% of guys online. My suggestion would be to use these now before the other guys start catching on. This article covers the whose top 3, and my next cover some more that you need to monitor.
The Top 3 things
We will start here not to do, because in the world of online dating, it is as much a game which is not say that this is what to say. Women are looking for any excuse little hitting "Next" and move to the next guy. So take a look at these suggestions and violate them at your own risk.
1. Do not have images without a shirt
Unless you have less than 30 years and have a great body, put a picture of yourself his naked torso. Regardless if you are 38 and have the chiseled body of a 24-year-old rower.
If you are under 30 years old and have a pack of 6, then go ahead and conditioned to this picture of playing you on a beach, Frisbee, or running with your dog - but not flexible for the camera. Have the photo taken where you do something in more permanent it tries to look like a stud because it just makes you look like an idiot.
If you're over 30 and in good shape, you still should not post a photo of yourself his naked torso. Put on a shirt that matches a bit tight so that women can see that you are in the form. Let them imagine the rest.
If you are in great shape, just average step or a little overweight like me, you definitely want to keep your shirt on. An image with you wear something with vertical bands will make you look thin. A little known secret is that taking a picture with something huge in the background (a House, the mountains, spaceship... you get it) will make you look small.
Oh, and while we are on this subject... for the love of God post a photo of yourself in a Speedo. Should I really say that? I hope not.
2. Do not shorten as you write a text Message
Do use abbreviations for message text anywhere in your profile. It is lame. It is difficult to read, and makes you look like you are 13.
It profile of a woman unedited that I ran through yesterday. Would have liked to meet this girl? (And if you answered "Yes." to this question, ask your friends for help).
It is 2011, im look n 4 new things 2 try & meet new ppl 2. Very easy IM 2 n & easy go get along the spirit. IM b n outside lov I hav a quad bike street & jetski, I n camp lov, hiking n, n, but always very girlie im fish. Dinner, dance n, n shop, travel outa town, I love 2 cook & hav some wines. IM in a time n my life tht I jst want 2 ride. So if u like wht ur hear n "lets do this!"
PS IF UR JST LOOK N 4 SEX UR ON THE FAULT OF PROFILE! IM LOOK N2 MEET REAL SUM1 & C WHR, NEED US!
Seriously, lady, get a clue. Enough said. NEXT.
3. Do not display images of you with children
Is no photos with children. Yes, I know that you are proud of your children, your nephew and the neighbour boy who worships you. But do not put place you images with a kid on your online dating profile. The internet is a scary place for women.
They believe that the Harassers, sex offenders and paedophiles are behind every keyboard. And they will think you are careless with safety of your child if you post this picture of you and junior to the park or to the ball game.
The way around this is to say something in your description of profile on how you thought of putting up the photo of you and your nephew playing catch, but you don't know what sort of people might be lurking out there in cyberspace. Including that in your profile shows that you are proud of your child, understand the world of women a bit and have common sense.
There are many ways of wasting while dating, on and offline. Following these tips you will set yourself right is successful. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, I will do what I can to make sure that you get the results you are looking for.
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